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You Don’t Need Another Date Night. You Need New Skills.
When your marriage is facing a level-ten problem, level-three relationship skills are not going to be enough. It may mean you need to learn how to deal with what you are facing.
Henk Kruger · 7 minute read
You Can Pray for Your Marriage and Still Need New Skills
Prayer is not a substitute for wisdom, repentance or learning how to handle difficult relationship problems. Sometimes the answer you are asking God for includes something you need to learn.
Henk Kruger · 9 minute read
Self-Control Is Spiritual – But It Still Has to Be Practised
You can sincerely want to respond differently and still find yourself losing control when the same old trigger gets touched. Self-control is part of the fruit of the Spirit, but that does not mean it appears in difficult conversations without being exercised, strengthened and practised.
Henk Kruger · 9 minute read
When Only One Person Wants to Save the Marriage
What do you do when you are still willing to fight for the marriage, but your spouse seems to have stopped trying? You cannot control whether they change, but that does not mean you are powerless. Sometimes the first shift in a marriage begins when one person stops waiting for the other to move first.
Henk Kruger · 9 minute read